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Donald P. Bender, age 58, of Chicago Heights, IL, passed peacefully on January 9, 2026. Loving father of Stephanie (Rob) Bender. Cherished grandfather of Sophia Nussbaum. Dear brother of Tom (Pat) Bender, Gary (Terry) Bender, Judy (Antonio) Sanchez, Gina Bender, Daniel Bender, and Diann (Ron) Bender. Also survived by many nieces, nephews and dear friends. Donald was preceded in death by his parents George and Jacqueline Bender, siblings Ronald Bender, David Bender, JoAnn Bender, Joseph Bender, and nephew Randy Bender.
Don loved to spend time with his family. He enjoyed cooking, playing pool, Chicago sports (except the Cubs), jamming out to his favorite bands and always had a joke for everyone. He loved traveling to Vegas with his friends. Most of all, his favorite way to spend time was with his granddaughter. He will be greatly missed.
Memorial visitation for family and friends will be held Saturday, February 28, 2026 from 3:00 – 7:00 p.m. at Smits Funeral Home, 2121 Pleasant Springs Lane, Dyer, IN. For more information please call 219-322-7300 or visit www.SMITSFH.com
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