Kenneth Harold Toren, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and faithful servant of Christ, was welcomed into the arms of Jesus on September 2, 2025, at the age of 80.
Ken lived his life as a testimony of God’s faithfulness. He was known for his kindness, steady faith, and willingness to help anyone in need. Whether through his church, his community, or simply in daily life, he sought to reflect the love of Jesus Christ in all that he did.
Ken, along with his wife of 39 years, Carol Mae Toren (nee Colantonio), created a strong family that strives to continue Ken’s legacy of faithfulness. Ken was a voracious reader; he loved obtaining knowledge and learning about God and the world He created. He loved outdoor activities including spending time in Door County, Michigan, and anywhere else his family happened to be. He had a passion for playing games, while also teaching his grandchildren true strategy, never letting them win without a fair fight. Potato chips and pizza were almost passions, but Ken never overindulged. He had a heart for serving God’s community, both near home and abroad. Mostly, other than his love for his Savior, Ken loved his wife Carol and enjoyed their long life together.
Ken was a strong and faithful father, pouring love, wisdom and encouragement into his children: Janet Balka and husband Dave Balka, Will Neibert and wife Betsy Neibert, and David Neibert and wife Jennifer Neibert. He was also a cherished grandfather to his grandchildren Aaron Balka, Jessie Mae Balka, Abigail Neibert, Isabelle Neibert, Anthony Kenneth and wife Ella Neibert, Nicholas Neibert, Joshua Kenneth Neibert, and Matthew Neibert. Deeply cherished brother-in-law to Phillip Colantonio.
Dear brother to sister Sandra (Tom) Whiting, sister Patricia Zimny with husband David Zimny. Also beloved brother to the late Ron Toren and the late Philip Toren, (then husband Terry Bruffey). Preceded in death by his parents Harold and Marian (Rinaldo) Toren.
His family welcomes you to a visitation held on Thursday, September 11, 2025, from 3:00 pm– 8:00 pm, at Smits Funeral Home (2121 Pleasant Springs Lane, Dyer, IN). The Funeral service takes place Friday, September 12, 2025, at 11:00 am, also at Smits Funeral Home, with Pastor Steve Miller officiating the service.
In lieu of flowers, please give memorial contributions to Highland Christian School, ( www.highlandchristian.org ).
For more information, please contact 219-322-7300 or visit our online obituary and guestbook at www.SMITSFH.com
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